ord, I thank you for these families who have devoted themselves to serving you and each other. Father, I pray over them—that they may experience an abundance of peace as they make decisions and lean into You for guidance each day. Give them creative ideas to help as they navigate finding the right routine and materials. Encourage their hearts and strengthen them with Your love. I pray for support in the right places at the right times to keep them going. Lord, we ask that each issue of the magazine and episode of the podcast would bring a breath of fresh air to these bold parents who are seeking Your will. Bless them and their journeys in the mighty name of Jesus! Amen.
My husband and I often “porch sit” first thing in the morning before the kids are awake. We love being outside surrounded by nature and communing with the Lord and each other. This is our time to talk about the day ahead and pray for the things that are on our hearts. Lately, that has been you. We’ve been praying for you to have insight and wisdom as you are getting used to being back in the fall routine. We also pray for your children. We pray that they would be led by the Lord as He raises them up for such a time as this.
We’re in this together, you and I. Doing our best for our families. It’s not a glamorous job, but it is a glorious one… One that brings glory to our Father who loves watching us care for His children. He’s cheering us on. He’s there for the good days and especially the bad. I love this Scripture from Isaiah that talks about how the Lord takes special care of parents:
- Healthy relationships provide a strong foundation for all home learning.
- Children were designed to learn from the day they are born.
- Each child has a unique blend of learning preferences, talents, and passions.
- There’s no one-size-fits-all education—including what they should learn and when they should learn it!
- The more ways kids interact with concepts, the better they understand them.
- Different seasons of life may require different approaches.
- Education should be an adventure!
- YOU are the best teacher for your children.
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- There is no such thing as a “gapless” education. Nobody can know everything. But we can teach them how to find answers.
- Your children are unique, and there is no one-size-fits-all type of education. And you know them better than anyone else. More importantly, you have access to the One who created them.
- God chose you to be the mother and teacher of your children. He didn’t make a mistake. He knew exactly what they needed—and who they needed.
- He equips you to do that which He has called you to do. And all you are asked to do is be faithful, not to be responsible for the results.
God gave you a spirit not of fear, but of power and love and self-control. Choose to live in this truth. You have all you need to homeschool your kids. Let God guide you in this journey, and yes, it will be enough.
This issue will give you the practical help and encouragement you need to stop trying to do it all. Durenda Wilson begins with giving you three truths to fight the myth of a gap-free education and goes on to answer the question, “How do I learn to ‘measure’ performance in a homeschool way?” in Dear Durenda.
Steve Demme shares how to identify “the big rocks” for your own family like he and his wife did. It’s a great way to figure out what your priorities are! Then he takes the sting out of math as he shares the truth about what kids really need… Less is truly more!
Do you have little learners? If so you do not want to miss Cultivating Little Learners by Kathy Eggers and Lesli Richards. They zero in on what your kids really need. And I’m sharing how to tap into the power of connection in The Natural Learning Home.
There is so much more in this issue. Our featured articles, Ashley Wiggers’ gentle encouragement from the “trenches,” Cheryl Bastian’s wisdom for homeschooling high school, Colleen Kessler and Connie Albers’ sage advice, and Jennifer Cabrera’s humorous look at WORMS… And of course, Todd Wilson has a little advice for dads.
remember it like it was yesterday. Our eight kids and I were humming along nicely in our homeschooling rhythm, feeling peaceful and content when a thought occurred to me: “If there were cameras in my house and the rest of the world could see exactly how we are homeschooling and what I am doing with my kids, they would say I am not doing enough. They would think my kids are headed for failure because their education certainly doesn’t look like the traditional school system.”
ne of the biggest struggles homeschooling moms have is trying to answer that ongoing question, “Am I doing enough?”
This is not only a difficult question, but an impossible one to answer because we would have to define what “enough” really is—and there is no way to know that either.
We all want to do right by our kids. We want to know that we prepared them well for life and whatever God has called them to do. That’s why we are so often desperate for a measuring stick to help us determine if we are actually doing “our job right.”
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expert on time management was scheduled to speak to a group of home educators. The speaker walked to the platform carrying a two-gallon glass jar and plunked it down heavily on the lectern. From beneath the lectern he pulled out a pail filled with big rocks. Placing several of the large rocks in the glass jar until the last one was level with the top of the jar, he leaned into the microphone and asked, “Can anyone tell me if this jar is full?”
A voice near the front quickly replied, “If it won’t hold any more rocks, then it is full.” Then the speaker pulled out another pail from beneath the lectern and poured gravel into the jar and once again asked, “Is the jar full now?”
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Ashley Wiggers
I love talking with different families about how they chose to homeschool. One family we spoke with recently told us about their missionary adventures. The young girl being homeschooled was learning about things most adults don’t understand. She knows how to eat a meal she doesn’t recognize in order to honor the culture and those who made it. She knows what it’s like to sleep in less comfortable conditions than home. She knows how to pray for people in need and wants to share Christ the best she can to help others come to know Him. This young woman is so confident in herself. She knows who she is. She knows her value and has no doubts about being loved by her parents and the God who made her.
by Kay Chance
Learning doesn’t really fit into neat little boxes… and that is good news! When we stop seeing education this way, we can skyrocket our children’s learning while cutting back on how long they spend “doing school” each day.
All we have to do is tap into the power of connection.
by Connie Albers
Homeschooling can be a rewarding and transformative journey—providing us with the opportunity to create a one-of-a-kind education for our children. But with that comes stress and pressure for many. Juggling teaching responsibilities, household management, and parenting duties can easily overwhelm us all.
It’s important that we discuss the common causes of stress for us as moms in the homeschooling environment and work on some practical ways for managing that stress effectively. Then, we can look at ways to help our children reduce the pressure they feel.
Carrie Fernandez
Carrie Fernandez, the owner and publisher at Daily Skill Building, brings you a featured column this year—Sticky Note(booking). She’ll be sharing how this easy-to-use, flexible tool breathes creativity and life into the way your kids do school.
he moment you begin homeschooling, you encounter a critical truth: every child learns differently. Every child has his own way of understanding information and connecting it to what he has already learned.
When you discover the best way for each of your children to learn, you will see better results, experience less frustration, and enjoy a lot more fun in your homeschool.
If you’re new to exploring learning styles, the vocabulary can seem a bit confusing. We’re going to break down some learning styles and dig into how you can best use notebooking with your unique learner.
re you feeling pressured to do all the things with your littlest learners? Maybe it’s time to step back and ask, “What do they really need?”
We need to be aware of the way God made our young children to grow and develop and take this into consideration as we teach them. Unfortunately, we have a real lack of understanding of child development in our society, and this is reflected in the way we chain children to desks earlier and earlier—to the great detriment of children and their development.
When Lesli’s son had a brain injury at eighteen months old and lost his ability to walk and talk, she had to become an amateur neurologist. The doctors told her he would never speak and would most likely be in an institution by the time he was ten. They gave him no hope for a normal life. That was not acceptable to her. She set to work researching and developing a plan for her son to rewire his damaged brain.
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hether you’ve kept to your regular homeschool studies through the summer, are slowly getting back on a schedule, or have an official “back to school” date circled on your calendar, I bet one thing is true—you want the transition into the new school year to be fun. (And so do your kids!) To that end, I asked homeschooling parents in our Hip Homeschool Moms Community to share the top toys and activities that today’s kids enjoy most. The result is this “top 10” list—all about kids’ favorites!
Your kids can have fun while nurturing creativity and critical thinking when you incorporate the things they love most into their homeschool day!
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With both art and nature study, children develop observational skills and eyes to see the beauty around them. Drawing, painting, and chalk pastels give kids a creative way to fill their nature journals with flowers, trees, birds, and more.
Ahhh, it’s time for autumn nature study. With the crisp, cool air rustling the changing leaves, it’s as if we’re being invited to watch winter’s slow approach.
There are so many different things you can do and see and experience in the fall.
In the spring issue, we talked about choosing one thing to focus on to build a habit of nature study.
Jennifer Cabrera
All That and a Bucket of Worms!
Ahem… my bag of inspirational homeschool metaphors lacks that certain charm and beauty you might find elsewhere. In short, they are slightly repulsive. Which is precisely why they are memorable.
These revelations are plucked from the real-world experience of raising and homeschooling only boys. A world where specimens of possible wisdom must be spotted in the rough, poked at with a stick, lit on fire, and/or collected for dissection. The memories preserved for mom’s retrospection when the excitement and nausea have worn off.
The thinking behind this approach is that by exposing students to the content over six years or so, they will have learned the material. (Plus impressive lists of topics sell books!) Sadly, though, the students who are forced to go through these texts rarely master any topic well and become discouraged in the process.
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Upside Down and Inside Out Nature Study
od designed so many unique and funny things in nature. That’s one of the biggest reasons I love to grow flowers—to attract birds and pollinators to our yard so we can see them close up! I want to challenge you to grab a camera (your phone will work great) and try these three ways to turn backyard nature study upside down and inside out, literally, and capture it in pictures.
Look closely at this photo of a spider and caterpillar (1.) under the flower head of a zinnia. It was taken while looking up from the ground. Yep, we were down on the ground in the middle of our back flower garden, looking at nature from an entirely new perspective!
Think about everything going on in that photograph. How do you think the spider and caterpillar got to be on the same flower at the same time? Did the caterpillar become the spider’s next meal? (I don’t know how that poor caterpillar sat perfectly still for over twenty-five minutes!)
Thanks to doing an upside-down nature study, we captured that curious predicament the caterpillar found itself in.
Now it’s your turn! Take a blanket outside, get close to some flowers, trees, and shrubs, and look up. Plan to spend some time there or visit the spot at different times.
Charla McKinley
s determined as I was to counteract it, my son developed an attitude of entitlement. As soon as each “gift-giving” event was cleaned up and the gifts put away, I inevitably heard, “What’s next?”
I stopped being so generous.
Wait, what?
Colleen Kessler, M.Ed.
arenting and homeschooling are journeys filled with unexpected twists and turns that can bring excitement, motivation, challenges, and loads and loads of stress. And, if we’re worried about all the ups and downs, imagine what our kids are feeling…
Stress is a natural part of life. It’s, quite simply, the body’s response to changes and challenges. Life is full of those things—even when you’re a kid! Most of the time, we think of stress as a bad thing caused by trauma, challenges, or hard things that happen. The truth is, though, that stress can be caused by good things as well. Upcoming events like a party, holiday, new activity, time with friends, or a new baby are exciting and good but can also cause stress.
People feel stress when they need to prepare or there’s something they need to adapt to, guard against, or look forward to. When something matters, a person feels stress. When there’s change coming—even a wanted or exciting change—a person feels stress.
with Cheryl A. Bastian
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We’re tackling some of the most common questions parents ask and sharing simple action steps to make it easy.
How do we prepare our high schoolers for an ever-changing job market?
xperiential learning is highly effective when it comes to preparing high schoolers for an ever-changing job market. Experiences that are exploratory, project-based, and involve practical application help make connections for them and become valuable companions to the coursework we commonly consider part of the high school path.
Recently, a homeschooling mom of a soon-to-be graduate who had launched his own LLC commented, “I fostered a mentality of lifelong learning from the time he was little. Now when he encounters a problem he wants to solve or discovers something he wants to learn, he just digs in.” This young man is growing his knowledge in construction and transport while working in the field, making professional connections, and building interpersonal communication skills. I suggested he research the possibility of obtaining a general contractor’s license as soon as he meets the requirements. There’s no doubt in my mind this young man will succeed… He’s a lifelong learner!
This is one example of the endless opportunities home-based learners could use to prepare for an ever-changing job market, while earning high school credit. Following are three S’s—shift mindset, self-awareness, and skill acquisition—that can springboard teens toward their next steps.
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oes your child love bugs? My Bug Notes by Lyric and Stone helps your 8 to 10-year-olds research insects. This notebook includes a glossary of terms, words defining the anatomy of a bug, a diagram of an insect, and journal pages to record observations. You’ll also find some recommended websites and books to accompany this journal.
Geared for ages 8 to 13, Cool Chemistry Science Lab by Spice Box™ is a fun, hands-on activity set. When kids open the box, it is like having their very own science lab! The instructions are easy to follow, and the twelve different projects will keep them busy with science exploration. Activities like making rock candy, perfume, and erupting foam are just a few you will find in the kit.
Learn more about animals as you create simple, animal-themed origami projects with Let’s Classify Origami by Enslow Publishers. Each of the books in this series highlights a different branch of animals—such as birds, fish, and more—and includes six projects accompanied by educational information about the animal. These make great activities for groups or individuals. The step-by-step instructions and pictures are made for 8 to 11-year-old students to read and follow. Every project can be repeated again and again!
Gina Burmeier & Amber Garcia
oes your child love bugs? My Bug Notes by Lyric and Stone helps your 8 to 10-year-olds research insects. This notebook includes a glossary of terms, words defining the anatomy of a bug, a diagram of an insect, and journal pages to record observations. You’ll also find some recommended websites and books to accompany this journal.
Geared for ages 8 to 13, Cool Chemistry Science Lab by Spice Box™ is a fun, hands-on activity set. When kids open the box, it is like having their very own science lab! The instructions are easy to follow, and the twelve different projects will keep them busy with science exploration. Activities like making rock candy, perfume, and erupting foam are just a few you will find in the kit.
Learn more about animals as you create simple, animal-themed origami projects with Let’s Classify Origami by Enslow Publishers. Each of the books in this series highlights a different branch of animals—such as birds, fish, and more—and includes six projects accompanied by educational information about the animal. These make great activities for groups or individuals. The step-by-step instructions and pictures are made for 8 to 11-year-old students to read and follow. Every project can be repeated again and again!
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n the early 80’s, there was a perfume commercial on TV that went viral when the only things going viral were… viruses. The name of the perfume was Enjoli, an eight-hour perfume that was supposed to take you through the day.
I’m pretty sure I never smelled the perfume, but the jingle stuck with me all these years. A woman sings to the camera while acting out the different lyrics. “I can bring home the bacon… Enjoli… fry it up in the pan… Enjoli… and never never… let you forget you’re a man… ‘cause I’m a wo—man… Enjoli.”
Since then, the jingle has been locked in my brain and released at random times… like now.
The unrealistic message behind the song was that women can be it all and do it all. Of course, that’s a lie, Mom. No one CAN DO IT ALL OR BE IT ALL. That’s especially true of homeschool moms who put huge pressure on themselves to be responsible for EVERYTHING and EVERYBODY.
There are plenty of great articles in this edition encouraging you to stop trying to do it all… so this article is written for dads. So Dad, can I talk to you for a moment? The only thing worse than putting all those pressures on yourself is when a homeschool mom’s husband heaps generous amounts of guilt and expectations onto her.
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