refuge is described as “a condition of being sheltered from danger.” One definition of a fortress is “a person or thing not susceptible to outside influence.”
I love this Scripture and the picture it produces in my mind. A safe place. A place I know I can run to anytime. In fact, this is the place I try to live from. Knowing I am cared for and kept by Almighty God enables me to be a refuge to others.
Psalm 91 has to be one of the most beautiful passages in Scripture. I like to use Blue Letter Bible as a resource for studying the Word. The following statement from their site explains their mission: “On November 3, 1995, God impressed upon the hearts of a particular group of Christians in Southern California to invest time and effort into a new venture utilizing the World Wide Web. Through prayer, the goal became clear: put the Bible up live on the Internet, along with a special set of digital tools, to accelerate the in-depth study of God’s Word. The name of the website became Blue Letter Bible, simply because all links to Bible verses were—and still are—blue.”
The site takes the original Hebrew and Greek words so that you can look at each phrase and know better what it means. These ancient languages have more depth to their words than ours do, as we know. The first time I looked up Psalm 91 on this site (they have a free app too), I was amazed. I wrote out the Psalm with all the additional words around the original ones I’ve known since I was a kid and it gave me a deeper understanding of God’s desire to be our refuge and place of total security. I’ve included my favorites below from the first two verses:
He who dwells (to sit, be set, remain, stay) in the secret place (covering, shelter, shade, protection, defense) of the Most High
Shall abide (to lodge, to cause to rest, remain) under the shadow (shade, protection, defense) of the Almighty (most powerful).
My God, in Him I will trust (have confidence, be bold, be secure, to cause to trust, be careless, to feel safe, make secure).”
Our theme this year is all about how our homes are at the center or heart of this choice to homeschool. We’re focusing on cultivating the atmosphere in this issue. We all want our homes to have an atmosphere of safety for our kids to grow in. Safe to dream, take risks, ask questions, make mistakes, and just be.
Much like we want to provide this space for our children, God wants us (His children) to know we are safe too. “My God, in Him I will trust” isn’t a passive statement. It’s bold and confident! I think the author is making a declaration here. He’s reminding himself of the truth. There’s no better place to put your trust.
Trust at its core is relational. The feeling of safety can’t develop without it. Trust blossoms out of what we believe. We can put our firm belief in Him when we realize what He’s really like. He has good plans for us (Jeremiah 29:11). He watches over us (Psalm 121:5). He fights for us (Exodus. 14:14). He is a mighty tower we can run to and find safety in (Proverbs 18:10). He is for us (Romans 8:31). He’s faithful (1 Thessalonians 5:24).
As we have noted before, trust is: the firm belief in the reliability, truth, ability or strength of someone or something.
Trusting in His nature produces rest and peace in us. We don’t need to understand everything, we just need to trust Him. You know, He trusts you. That’s why He gave you this incredible responsibility to raise and nurture your children. To teach them and love them. To find your safety and security in the Father. Then you will be a safe and secure place for your children.
hirty years ago Homeschooling Today magazine was founded by homeschooling parents with a vision to encourage and assist homeschooling families. Today, that vision continues with homeschool graduates Alex and Ashley Wiggers at the helm.
We are staunch supporters of homeschooling because we’ve seen the value of what this choice has to offer. In our homes, it was enjoyable, filled with learning that lasted, and built on the foundation of relationship. We are now continuing this legacy of freedom in learning with our own children. Parents, we believe in the power of influence you have as you walk with God, to provide everything your children need to fulfill their destinies. We believe that homeschoolers are uniquely fitted to become world changers because they’re used to doing things differently. Having been shown the true value of learning and what they’re capable of, these children will look at the world with eyes to help, lead, problem-solve, and display a depth of character that reflects the convictions of their faith.
This is what our children are called to do, but it won’t happen if we walk in fear. Our mission is to come alongside you with encouragement and practical help, to remind you that we’re in this together, and to help you see past the present trials into the reality of your true calling, equipping your children to be the remarkable people God created. Whether you are homeschooling for a season of life or the years to come, this movement can be a catalyst for courage. It will be through our ability to shed fear and embrace courage that we will enable our children to do the same!
We choose to homeschool boldly!
texted Ashley one day while editing the columns for this edition asking her if it was weird that I started crying as I read the articles. I was overwhelmed with the fact that I get to work with a team of such incredible writers who want to love homeschooling families and minister to them. What a privilege.
We want you to know that. Our team truly loves you all. They are a gifted, talented group who could do anything out in the world, but they choose to serve the homeschooling community. It’s more than a job for them and us. It’s our mission.
Last year we focused on the boldly part of what it means to homeschool boldly. This year is all about HOME. Homeschooling is about so much more than academics. It’s about creating a safe atmosphere where our kids can thrive. It’s about having fun and building relationships. It’s about doing life together as we prepare them for whatever God has called them to.
This year’s magazine is better than ever. We’re excited to bring you some new columns, as well as making some changes to others this year! Our friend Steve Demme joins us with two different columns. The tips he shares in Taking the Sting Out of Math are gold! (Our copy editor, Tracy, texted me when she read it and called one idea “brilliant!”) And his honesty and vulnerability as he shares his heart in Faith Filled Family may just be life-changing.
The sisters from Trim Healthy Mama, Serene Allison and Pearl Barrett, are going to give us some great advice when it comes to kids, nutrition, and problems we face in the kitchen! My husband and I live a Trim Healthy lifestyle and I’m so thankful for all I’ve learned from them. And Michelle Moody is going to help you do some backyard science throughout the year! You’ll love her hands-on approach, making science study fun and doable.
We’re also welcoming a new writer for our Great Books column. Dachelle has been creating literary book clubs for elementary through high school students, and we think you’re going to love the fresh new look and ideas she’s bringing.
Durenda Wilson is now writing our Mom to Mom column as well as a new one: Dear Durenda. Now’s your chance to get your questions answered. If you have something you’ve always wanted to ask her, send it to deardurenda@homeschoolingtoday.com and maybe she’ll pick it to write about in the summer issue!
Cheryl Bastian’s column about high school is now called High School Helpline. She’s tackling some of the most common questions moms have about teaching high school. Her wealth of knowledge in this area will be invaluable to you.
Let’s create a safe place for our children to learn—where our kids can make mistakes, be their unique and gifted selves, and know that they don’t have to “keep up” with the arbitrary standards and timelines for learning.
It’s time to focus on FUNschooling! In this issue, we’ll talk about building relationships, making memories, and ways to keep things more “light”! We want to hone in on the things that graduates look back on and say, “I loved it when we…”
This will be a very practical issue full of help for organization, chores, meal planning, and all the things that keep the home fires burning. Find out how to teach kids life skills with topics like time management and productivity, too!
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Home: A Place of Refuge
I walked into my parent’s home, the smell of a cooking pot roast permeated the entire house and instantly my eyes welled up with tears. I was married and had children of my own, but to my surprise, the smell of my mom’s cooking brought such a feeling of comfort and relief that my entire being relaxed.
I loved being a mom. I loved caring for my small children and husband and keeping our home, but there was something about the smell of my own mom’s home-cooked meal that made me feel as though I had come home to a place of refuge.
How do we know it will be enough?
My ongoing battle, and probably every mum asks herself this, is: how do we know it will be enough? I know it is enough now, but what about when they are older?
I have friends whose children do several hours more schoolwork than my children of the same age – rigorous, Charlotte Mason/Classical style. It works for them, which is wonderful, but I worry. Sometimes it makes me doubt that I’m not taking this seriously enough (even though I know I am) because we don’t look “serious.”
I guess I just need encouragement that this will all work out okay!
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by Ashley Wiggers
Let Go of Timing
here aren’t a lot of quiet moments in our house these days for me to focus and be still enough to write. Writing, of course, takes time and a certain measure of concentration. It’s also something I cannot do unless the Lord leads and helps me put thoughts together.
Today, the words have not been flowing very well. My article is the last one to go and we have deadlines coming up quickly, so my awesome husband took our kids today to give me some time during Ruby’s nap to write. I was able to get some thoughts down, but not enough to complete the writing I needed to do.
So here I am at Starbucks drinking an iced coffee and doing my best to finish. I find it amusing that I’m writing about timing and I am currently in need of waiting on the Lord. I have to trust Him when the words don’t come that He will provide. I need to trust that as I’m doing this, the kids and their dad will be okay without me. Their dad can totally handle them, it’s just that us moms don’t want any undue difficulties to all happen at once while we’re gone (like they can at times with three young children).
here aren’t a lot of quiet moments in our house these days for me to focus and be still enough to write. Writing, of course, takes time and a certain measure of concentration. It’s also something I cannot do unless the Lord leads and helps me put thoughts together.
Today, the words have not been flowing very well. My article is the last one to go and we have deadlines coming up quickly, so my awesome husband took our kids today to give me some time during Ruby’s nap to write. I was able to get some thoughts down, but not enough to complete the writing I needed to do.
So here I am at Starbucks drinking an iced coffee and doing my best to finish. I find it amusing that I’m writing about timing and I am currently in need of waiting on the Lord. I have to trust Him when the words don’t come that He will provide. I need to trust that as I’m doing this, the kids and their dad will be okay without me. Their dad can totally handle them, it’s just that us moms don’t want any undue difficulties to all happen at once while we’re gone (like they can at times with three young children).
A Paradigm Shift
Maybe it’s because we bring our own insecurities about writing, and teaching it, along with us. There are so many rules to follow while writing, and yet it is strangely subjective at the same time. Just look at the reviews of books on Amazon and you know—what one person loves to read, another hates.
• Inspires a Love of Learning
• Produces Independent Thinkers
• Nurtures Curiosity
• Easy to Teach
is time to leave for your weekly grocery run and your three-year-old comes downstairs with his shirt on backward and wearing shorts, cowboy boots, and a superman cape. Grinning ear to ear, he is so proud that he dressed himself. How do you react? Are you going to critique his outfit and send him upstairs to change, or will you join in his exuberation and head out the door?
How do you respond to the toddler who insists she “do it myself” and then spills the milk all over the table?
reativity leads to new ideas, new information, new hobbies, new interests, and so much more! Allowing our children to make messes, try new things, and let go of perfectionism can help foster a life long love of learning. It can help our children develop skills and talents they may not otherwise have known they possessed. And, most importantly, it can help our children become the unique people God intends them to be.
Here are ten simple ways to spark your kids’ creativity. Use these as jumping-off points for coming up with your own ideas or use them just as they are. So get creative thinking of ways to encourage creativity in your children!
Your kids can create a cell model with anything from a huge cookie (with candies to represent the parts of the cell) to Legos.
reativity leads to new ideas, new information, new hobbies, new interests, and so much more! Allowing our children to make messes, try new things, and let go of perfectionism can help foster a life long love of learning. It can help our children develop skills and talents they may not otherwise have known they possessed. And, most importantly, it can help our children become the unique people God intends them to be.
Here are ten simple ways to spark your kids’ creativity. Use these as jumping-off points for coming up with your own ideas or use them just as they are. So get creative thinking of ways to encourage creativity in your children!
Your kids can create a cell model with anything from a huge cookie (with candies to represent the parts of the cell) to Legos.
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You used the pen or pencil to write down a dream or goal, your child’s dental appointment, or an upcoming birthday reminder. It’s all there. Some entries make you smile, while others make you pause. Then, you read the story you wrote or the event you were planning, and you instantly are transported to that moment.
Your life tells a story, but we often don’t notice while we live it. I mean, most people don’t think they are living a story. Instead, they are just trying to get through a math lesson or bedtime battle or potty training and wonder will it ever end!
When Farmer Brown goes on vacation, he leaves the farm in the hands of his brother, Bob. Bob is unaware of the exceptional abilities of Farmer Brown’s barnyard friends and soon falls for the antics of Duck. Duck is the appointed note forger and does a fabulous job of tricking Bob into aiding the animals in getting their hearts’ desires.
With the help of his parrot friend, he learns to speak to animals and eventually becomes a veterinarian (which is fine with him since he understands animals so much better than humans). When he decides to head out to Africa to answer the call of the monkeys, his animal friends join him. This story takes us on an adventure to the jungles of Africa where he meets familiar animals, a prince, and even a fantastical new animal. And if that’s not enough, he’ll even encounter a pirate or two!
The leaders of the coup, the pigs Snowball and Napoleon, begin to convince the other animals that the pigs are more intelligent and should be listened to and followed. Initially, things go well and the animals have a productive harvest, but things do not stay this way for long.
Soon we see that Napoleon is power hungry and does not want to share the leadership. Secretly, he has been building an army of ferocious dogs that he uses to run off Snowball. For the rest of the book, everything that goes wrong is blamed on Snowball so that Napoleon is never seen as responsible for any wrongdoing.
Without spoiling the plot, the book spends considerable time exploring the inner thoughts, needs, and desires of the animals. Napoleon uses different types of propaganda to keep the animals obedient. Throughout the book, he writes and rewrites the rules for the animals while convincing them that the rules have never changed. At the end, we see a surprising turn of events that only Orwell could write.
It is to the latter group that I am writing today.
Consider homeschooling math as an opportunity for a do-over. Your first experiences were not positive and now you have a chance to learn it along with your children. You have several assets at your disposal that you did not have when you were a struggling student.
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In 1887, Ms. Mason founded the Parent’s National Education Union to support teachers, schools, and parents who wanted to adopt her principles of education.
atural conversations are the way to spark interest, understanding, and personal passion for wise, lifelong eating habits in your children. Is food just all about taste and getting full… or is it more? Igniting their curiosity about this “more” will be the key.
Kids cannot develop a lifelong, healthy relationship with food when its purpose is unknown. Conversations about what food really is, rather than just how it tastes or whether they like or dislike it, will begin to foster the healthiest relationship with food.
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An outdoor weather station is an engaging activity to add to your nature studies as we enter spring and summer. We will talk about the various weather conditions we measure, and then we will build a thermometer your children can use as part of a weather station.
We will also look at ways to add weather observation to your family’s nature journaling activities.
Let’s get started with our weather study!
Colleen Kessler, M.Ed.
saddened when I hear parents talk about their kids like this, as if the genetic propensity to learn is what it is, and there’s nothing anyone can do about it. I’m not a psychologist or a brain researcher, but I have worked with counselors and researchers alike, and I have read widely in the field to better understand how kids learn. Despite my lack of a PhD, I don’t believe that there is anything present at birth that determines if a child will be a scientist, store clerk, reader, writer, or cook.
Just as you have taken steps to protect your home and car by locking the doors, you must do the same thing for your family when it comes to all of their screen time. You would never want your teenager to sit on a bench in the mall next to a stranger and share intimate information about themselves. Nor would you ever intentionally set up your child for a moral failure or help them scar their reputation. There are two proactive fronts for you to guard in providing technology safety before any damage occurs.
I’ve been asked to provide a transcript for my high school learner. Where do I start?
The transcript is a summary—a one-page, visual representation—of a high schooler’s academic record. Though pulling together the information for this document can feel weighty and challenging, it is simply a listing of courses, grades, and credits completed by the learner. Simplifying the process, taking one step at a time, can alleviate stress and concern.
Deanne Crawford & Gina Burmeier
Customizing Your Child’s Education
sn’t homeschooling a blessing? It’s sometimes easy to forget during the day-to-day grind of teaching, and life in general, that we have been given a great opportunity. With that opportunity, though, comes responsibility, as well as many perks we can tap into to give our children the best possible education.
At home, your children are in a secure environment where they can explore their interests and talents and acquire new skills. They can learn at their own pace, ask questions, make mistakes, move ahead or slow down—all without feeling insecure. They are encouraged, and as a result, build confidence and security.
Safe at Home
Let’s just say it upfront: schools are not safe. They may have metal detectors installed, security patrol in the halls, and practice active-shooter drills, but they’re not safe places to grow up.
I should know. I grew up and went to school in the good ol’ days when they didn’t need metal detectors, school patrols, or active-shooter drills. I attended when kids were disciplined for chewing gum, being tardy, and talking out of turn. In those days, they didn’t care about your self-esteem or how they talked to you. Back then, they’d haul you to the principal’s office where he’d whip out a board that was the size of a bleacher seat and apply it to the “seat of the problem”… and look like he was having fun as he swatted.
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