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with Steve Demme

The Most Important Query
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 Matthew 22:36-38, Jesus is asked a question, “‘Teacher, which is the great commandment in the Law?’ And He said to him, ‘You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind. This is the great and first commandment” (ESV). The Son of God is quoting one of the oldest truths in Judaism, a central tenet of the Jewish morning and evening prayers known as the Shema.

“Hear, O Israel: Jehovah our God, Jehovah is one. You shall love Jehovah your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your might.” (Deuteronomy 6:4–5, ASV, 1901) Jesus then declares this passage to be the great and first commandment.

There are two words in the original passage that I would like to be the focus of our attention: “all” and “might.” We are directed to love God with ALL our heart, ALL our soul, and ALL our MIGHT, or strength.

All
The Hebrew word for all is כֹּל, pronounced kohl, which is translated as all, whole, every, everything, and complete. Note how this word is used in the following verses:
“Bless Jehovah, O my soul, and ALL that is within me, bless His holy name!”

—Psalm 103:1
“Let EVERYTHING that has breath praise Jehovah! Praise Jehovah!”

—Psalm 150:6
“Let your heart therefore be WHOLLY DEVOTED to Jehovah our God, to walk in His statutes and to keep His commandments, as at this day.”

—1 Kings 8:61
“God is clearly calling for a complete and total commitment from us, a call to channel all our energies and resources into loving God with every part of our being!
Might
The word which we translate “MIGHT” is מְאֹד, pronounced meh-ODE. It is rendered: very, great, greatly, and exceedingly. Its primary function is as an amplifier. In English, we might say, “to the Nth degree.”
“The waters prevailed and increased GREATLY on the earth, and the ark floated on the face of the waters. And the waters prevailed so MIGHTILY on the earth that all the high mountains under the whole heaven were covered.”

—Genesis 7:18
Confluence of All and Might
When you put these two words together, ALL and MIGHT, it paints quite a picture. “God saw EVERYTHING that He had made, and behold, it was VERY good.” (Genesis 1:31) God’s call is for each of us to love God with EVERYTHING in us to the Nth degree. It is difficult to find one word that encompasses this concept. Perhaps the word superlatively, or maybe surpassingly. God is clearly calling for a complete and total commitment from us, a call to channel all our energies and resources into loving God with every part of our being!

Jesus echoes this sentiment when He calls this the “First and Great Commandment.” Words are difficult to describe this overarching and all-encompassing truth. Oswald Chambers comes close as he titled his marvelous devotional, My Utmost for His Highest, which is an articulate attempt to express our quest.

Paul finds himself seeking to use words to describe the Nth degree. He is laboring to make the Roman Church understand that nothing can keep them from the love of God. He states:

“For I am sure that neither death nor life, nor angels nor rulers, nor things present nor things to come, nor powers, nor height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord.”

—Romans 8:38–39, NKJV
Our Response
So how do we love God with all of our heart, soul, and strength? I wondered the same thing thirteen years ago. I was at an event speaking on Deuteronomy 6:7, “You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise.” This passage had shaped how I viewed my dual responsibility as a parent: to teach my children the Word of God, and live it out in my daily life.

At the end of the session, I was asked why I had left out verses 5 and 6. I had no response and looked them up. As I did, a light bulb went off in my mind. Yes, of course, before I can teach my children to love God and His Word, I had to love God and His Word. “You shall love Jehovah your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your might. And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart.”

I recognized how fundamental and basic this command was, to love God with everything in me. I didn’t know how to manufacture this, so I simply asked God to help me love Him with everything in me. I knew He would answer this prayer because it is certainly according to His highest will for each of His children:

“This is the confidence that we have toward Him, that if we ask anything according to His will He hears us. And if we know that He hears us in whatever we ask, we know that we have the requests that we have asked of Him.”

—1 John 5:14–15, ESV
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Surprising Answer
I waited for an answer, and yet nothing earth-shattering happened right away, but I began to realize that in sermons, spiritual songs, and Scripture, God was making me know how much He loved me. I was surprised by this approach and remonstrated that I was seeking to love Him, not learn more about how much He loved me. God made me understand that this was an answer to my prayer, for “We love because He first loved us.” (1 John 4:19, ESV)

One inspired verse was quickened to me, which changed my understanding of God’s love. Jesus was teaching His disciples when He said, “As the Father has loved Me, so have I loved you. Abide in My love.” (John 15:9, ESV) As the truth of this passage began to dawn on me, I caught my breath, for Jesus stated plainly that He loves us just as His Father loves Him. Wow!

I then pondered on how the Father had loved His Son, and my mind went to His baptism. When Jesus emerged from the waters:

“The heavens were opened and He saw the Spirit of God descending like a dove and settling on Him. And a voice from heaven said, ‘This is My dearly loved Son, Who brings me great joy.’”

—Matthew 3:16–17, NLT
When we consider that Jesus has forgiven our sin, adopted us into His family, delivered us from condemnation, and clothed us in His robes of righteousness, and put these verses together, we can begin to see how God looks at us and says, “You are my dearly loved child, who brings me great joy!” What great news, for indeed, as our lives are “hidden with Christ in God” (Colossians 3:3, ESV), we are loved just as God loved His Son.

As special as this revelation was, it took a while for my mind to catch up to my spirit and heart. I began searching the Scriptures for God’s love and grace in the New Testament and for lovingkindness and mercy in the Old Testament. My objective was to be “transformed by the renewing of your mind.” (Romans 12:2, NKJV)

After marinating in the Word of God, I can now state unequivocally that as I have understood God’s love in a new way, the result is that I love God more than I ever have. God answered my prayer so wonderfully, and yet not in the way I had imagined.

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Living in this New Understanding
The last four words of John 15:9 are “Abide in my love.” As I read them, I wondered how to abide, or dwell, or live, in His love. The answer is found in the next few verses:
“If you keep My commandments, you will abide in My love, just as I have kept My Father’s commandments and abide in His love. These things I have spoken to you, that My joy may be in you, and that your joy may be full. This is My commandment, that you love one another as I have loved you. Greater love has no one than this, that someone lay down his life for his friends. You are My friends if you do what I command you.”

—John 15:10–14, NKJV
These verses are both simple and sublime. I encourage you to chew on them and ask the Spirit to help you walk in them and make them a part of your life. May I also encourage you to ask God to help you love Him with every part of your being? He promises to fulfill this request, for it is according to His perfect will.

I am so grateful that God led me on this journey. I feel like I have been born again, again. I understand God’s grace and affection as never before, which has led me to love Him more and spend more time in His Word and in His presence.

When I am tempted to doubt His love, my three-pronged swords of the Spirit are: “God is love” (1 John 4:9, 16), God never changes (Malachi 3:6), and nothing “will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord.” (Romans 8:39)

May “the grace of the Lord Jesus Christ and the love of God and the fellowship of the Holy Spirit be with you all.”
(2 Corinthians 13:14, ESV). Amen!
Your adopted brother in the Lord,
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teve Demme and his wife Sandra have been married since 1979. They have been blessed with four sons, three lovely daughters-in-law, and six special grandchildren. Their fourth son has Down syndrome and lives with them in Lititz, PA. Steve has served in full or part-time pastoral ministry for many years after graduating from Gordon-Conwell Theological Seminary. He is the creator of Math-U-See and the founder of Building Faith Families.