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Life Skills Training: Equipping Your Child for Everyday Success
by Connie Albers
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ave you ever found yourself wondering if your child will be ready to handle the real world when the time comes? As a mom of grown children, I can tell you—teaching life skills is one of the best investments you can make. Sure, academics are important, but what about the skills they’ll need to actually live day-to-day? Life skills—those practical, everyday abilities—are just as critical as any math problem or book report. And trust me, the effort you put in now will pay off when your adult kids are thriving in their own lives.

Let me give you a couple of examples from my own family. When my kids were younger, I thought saying, “You need to manage your time better,” was enough. Spoiler alert: it wasn’t. So, I printed each of them a simple daily schedule and taped it to the refrigerator, expecting they would manage it themselves. They set their own alarms, tracked their activities, and learned how to balance their time. Sure, we had our fair share of missed alarms and “I forgot” moments, but watching them figure it out was pure gold. These days, I delight in knowing they can juggle work, family, and life without constant reminders from mom.

Another time, I handed my daughter our grocery budget and let her plan a week of family meals. Armed with a calculator and shopping lists—which she created—she quickly learned that groceries cost more than she thought and we don’t need five kinds of chips.

The meals? Well, let’s just say some were more edible than others. On the “not-so-good” days, we made PB&J sandwiches. But the pride she felt serving a meal she planned and budgeted for was worth every slightly charred bite. Now, she is a pro at managing her family budget—and we still talk about that first meal she created.

Time management, budgeting, cooking—as you can see, all of this happened as a part of our everyday life. Life skills training isn’t about adding more to your already full plate. It’s about weaving these lessons into your very real world.

So here are a few ideas to help you think about ways to incorporate this fruitful training into your daily routines.

Planning
Have your children plan a sibling’s birthday party—from managing the budget to coming up with the activities. Let them help plan a family vacation or take charge of a backyard project. Real-world applications make the lessons stick and show them how their efforts make a tangible difference.
Money Management
Teaching your children money management skills can be accomplished in a variety of ways, but one of the most practical (and fun) ways is to let them work. Whether they do yard work, childcare, pet sitting, or an online store—they’ll gain real world experience as they earn and learn to save money. Get creative and watch your children thrive.
Young person in a grocery store holding a notebook.
“Life skills training isn’t about adding more to your already full plate. It’s about weaving these lessons into your very real world.
Responsibility
Chores are a great way to teach responsibility and household management. In our house, we had rotating tasks that matched each child’s age and ability. Whether it was doing laundry, cleaning bathrooms, or taking care of the garden, these chores taught them how to contribute to a household. And yes, sometimes they’d hide from their chores (I’m looking at you, last born child), but eventually, they learned that life doesn’t work unless everyone pitches in.
Conflict Resolution
My kids still use conflict resolution and communication skills every day. Family discussions were our classroom for this. When disagreements arose—and believe me, they did—I encouraged my kids to express their feelings respectfully and listen to each other’s perspectives. We practiced problem-solving together, and it’s incredible to see how those lessons now play out in their careers and relationships.

Here’s the best part: teaching life skills is downright fun. Sure, it’s messy, and yes, there will be moments of chaos. But there’s also joy, laughter, and the sweet satisfaction of watching your children grow. I’ve had a front-row seat to my kids’ journeys, and I can confidently say that the effort is worth it.

So, mama, take heart. You’re doing important work. These everyday lessons—whether it’s teaching responsibility through gardening or showing them how to budget for a family meal—aren’t just about life skills. They’re about connection, confidence, and preparing our kids to thrive in a world that’s anything but predictable. And that’s something to be proud of.
Connie
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onnie Albers is a mother of five and veteran homeschool mom who has used her public relations background to help shape the homeschooling movement for twenty-seven years. She has spent much of her adult life as a homeschool mom and mompreneur with an outreach and ministry to parents through her speaking, writing, and various leadership roles. More recently Connie’s newest book, Parenting Beyond the Rules by NavPress, outlines positive approaches to parenting today’s teenagers. Her enthusiasm for helping others navigate social media led to her taking a post at Social Media Marketing World. Connie’s mission is to equip moms to live their lives with confidence and joy.

Connie and her husband, Tom, have been married thirty-four years and have homeschooled their five children, all of whom continued their studies and graduated from the University of Central Florida, from the beginning.