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by Kay Chance
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Taking the Scenic Route
Sometimes you have to take the scenic route
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n the first two issues of 2024, we’ve talked about how LEGO bricks and board games can teach our children more than most curriculums in their early years. I had a path planned to continue, a theme of highlighting those things our children already love as a part of their natural learning process.

But as I said, sometimes you just have to take the scenic route. The scenic route is often inspired “in the moment,” and in this case by something I personally experienced recently.

“As homeschooling parents, we want to teach in ways that our kids are designed to learn—connecting their experiences to the concepts we want to convey.”
Let me explain. I’ve incorporated verse-mapping during my Bible study time. It’s given me the chance to really slow down and meditate on just one or two verses a week—digging deeper, mining them for the incredible treasures God has waiting for me to discover.
Using The James Method (there are other versions of verse mapping, but this one is so good!), I choose a verse (or verses) from a chapter I’m studying in a particular book of the Bible. Then, I do the following over the next few days or week:

  • Write out the verse
  • Figure out the context of the verse
  • Look it up in different translations
  • Highlight keywords (Often you’ll notice some that stand out because they translate differently.)
  • Define those keywords
  • Find cross-references
  • Discover what those verses have to say about both God and man
  • Pray

Currently, I’m studying the book of Proverbs. In the first chapter, there’s a verse that sets up the entire book:

The fear of the LORD is the beginning of knowledge, but fools despise wisdom and instruction.

— Proverbs 1:7, CSB
I chose my keywords: fear, knowledge, fools, despise, wisdom, instruction. (I know… pretty much the whole verse!)

Like I’d heard growing up, the fear of the LORD is really a reverential awe. The type of knowledge is an “experiential” type of knowledge. Fools are morally bankrupt, even evil. Despise is a strong word meaning “feel contempt or a deep repugnance for”. Wisdom is living life skillfully—according to God’s moral law—while instruction is akin to discipline. Not surprising since we often have to learn things the hard, and even painful way.

But as I prayed, I asked, “What does the fear of the LORD really mean?” Yes, I understood what the words meant. Something was missing for me, though. And it was in that question that the Holy Spirit brought a specific memory to mind.

The Memory
I remember stepping out of the car and realizing in that moment what we were about to see was beyond what I had imagined. I’d seen pictures, of course. And though those images were beautiful and even accurate, they simply lacked something. As the saying goes, they just didn’t do it justice.

As we walked closer to the edge, for the first time, I truly understood the meaning of the word breathtaking. I literally felt myself quietly lose the air in my lungs out of pure amazement. I may have even trembled just a bit.

The Grand Canyon.
We walked around, gazing at it for hours. Describing it proves difficult even now. Beautiful, immense, and even dangerous, it makes you feel tiny as you reflect on its vastness. It overwhelms you.

As this memory resurfaced, I saw a connection between the Grand Canyon and the fear of the LORD. It was like a light turned on. I wanted to share this idea with our women’s Bible study group at church and decided I needed a picture or video of the canyon. And God used a video on YouTube, by Park Ranger Stephanie Sutton, to illuminate this growing concept even more—this picture I believe God placed on my heart.

In the video, Stephanie shares that about 95% of people never leave the rim. They gaze at the canyon, wondering over its beauty, and yet they don’t start trekking down into it. They never take the time to explore and experience it.

However, that small percentage of those who do, find there’s so much more to it than they can even imagine from the edge.

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Understanding
The fear of the LORD. It’s that breath-taking moment we recognize His incredible magnificence, beauty, vastness, goodness, and even “unsafeness”.
“Aslan is a lion—the Lion, the great Lion.” “Ooh” said Susan. “I’d thought he was a man. Is he quite safe? I shall feel rather nervous about meeting a lion”…”Safe?” said Mr Beaver …”Who said anything about safe? ‘Course he isn’t safe. But he’s good. He’s the King, I tell you.”

― C.S. Lewis, The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe
Is the beginning of knowledge. That fear is the beginning. That breathtaking moment then leads us to commit to knowing God better… to know Him experientially. We step down from the rim and explore His different character traits. We dig deeply into the gospels to understand Jesus and His teachings. We gaze at His beauty:
“One thing I ask from the LORD, this only do I seek: that I may dwell in the house of the Lord all the days of my life, to gaze on the beauty of the Lord and to seek him in his temple.”

— Psalm 27:4, NIV
That fear is what leads us to a deeper relationship with Him, a recognition of His kingship in our lives, a desire to live wisely as a response to His infinite love. It invites us to get to know Him.
“About 95% of people never leave the rim of the Grand Canyon. Yet those who venture in discover so much more than they imagined.”
The Natural Learning Home
What does this have to do with natural learning? This process reminded me of the power of linking a known experience to a less understood concept. It doesn’t matter what age you are. It’s easier to understand something when we can make a comparison. That’s why metaphors and similes are such powerful tools in writing. It’s why allegories and fables are so impactful. It’s why Jesus taught his disciples, often using object lessons from those things around them.

This is what natural learning is all about. As homeschooling parents, we want to teach in ways that our kids are designed to learn. And as parents, we have so much more to draw from. We know their experiences—the places they have visited, the hard times they’ve endured, their favorite things, their unique characteristics.

Tap into what you know about your kids and use this information to help them understand the world around them. And if all else fails, take them to the Grand Canyon.
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Kay Chance
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ay Chance homeschooled her children for fifteen years. While teaching them, she discovered a passion for writing and developing curriculum resources. She loves sharing natural learning methods and creative lesson ideas with other homeschooling parents. Kay is the co-executive editor of Homeschooling Today magazine and the author of the older extensions for the Trail Guide to Learning series. She makes her home in Texas with her husband Brian.